Why you shouldn’t learn cunnilingus from porn movies

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If you think that porn actors do perfect cunnilingus, you’re nastly mistaken. Read this article to find out why is that so and learn how to do it the right way.

So in which way pornography leads you to the wrong path? Pornography promotes a distorted way of cunnilingus: the flicking tongue. You should know that flicking the tongue on a clitoris right away will in most cases decrease your chances of satisfying a woman sexually. The thing is that some women like licking their clitoris with the tip of your tongue but only after they are feeling horny and ready for that.
It would be better if you would just put your warm lips down there. Then lick it for a bit, and later continue with just your lips.
Try it in such a way that you get close to the clitoris by first licking the inner thigh, then continue toward the pubic bone and gently press it.

Consequences of uncontrollable tongue flicking

If you’re going to flick the tongue, it’s very probable that:

  • You tongue will dry up
  • Even worse, her vagina will dry up
  • With a dry tongue you’ll uncomfortably move the foreskin around clitoris

All in all, it is important that you eat her out the same way you expect her to make fellatio on you:
- Juicy, intensely and without excessive sudden movements.
There is plenty of misinformation from different sources, which promote flicking your tongue. I even ran into an article from one of the most popular men’s magazine, in which they write how a man must flick his tongue on clitoris, and how he shouldn’t touch her labia with his lips. That’s wrong! Women are usually disappointed with the random tongue flicking.

They write in the above mentioned article how you shouldn’t press your lips on her clitoris, because you’ll deaden the tissues. In reality it’s just the opposite. The fact is that clitoris likes an isolated touch (with a tongue), but the whole area enjoys a mild and gentle sucking and pressure.

Is it so hard to ask?

It’s very important to know what suits your partner and do not be afraid to ask whether she enjoys what you’re doing and whether you’re on the right track. You should keep in mind that even she doesn’t know everything about her body. That’s why it’s perfectly normal if you help her in her research.

Unfortunately, we usually take directions from others, rather than to serve the best possible strategy and just ask what she wants. It sounds very simple, but often very difficult to implement.
Biggest mistake – both men and women make – is a belief that there is nothing new to learn about sex, since we already know everything. However, sexuality is a living creation, which everyone understands and feels in a different way and it is ever changing, depending on the time and circumstances. If you really want to master the situation, then you need to know how to adapt, to listen, observe, understand and respect.

Wanna learn the right way of doing cunnilingus? Check out our free cunnilingus guide.

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