Biggest mistakes men do while doing cunnilingus and how to avoid them

As I said “just licking it” won’t do the trick. Lets see what are some other big mistakes men also make:

1) Getting physical right away

Yes, we can be a bit impatient and want to rush things sometimes, but making a preparation will make a tremendous difference.
And I’m not only thinking about physical stuff, you should also make a mental preparation before cunnilingus.
Ideally you should make her ready mentally. Romantic evening, diner, small gift or a kind surprise can make a big impact. With a little romance women can get from zero to hot and horny. Women are not so visual like men, so it’s more about a feeling you can evoke in her. And ideally you should make her feel special, wanted and safe.
Just a simple gesture or compliment can be enough for start. Remember, “the mind is the strongest aphrodisiac there is.”

2) Going down on her too soon

When you start getting physical, don’t go down on her right away. You should work your way up to it.
You might feel it’s too slow, but although every woman is unique, in most cases this soft approach will excite your lover more.
In some rare cases she may feel frustrated for your slow pace, but know that if you start too rough it will almost certainly turn her off.

3) Going straight to vagina or clitoris

After you work your way to her sexual organ, don’t start licking her clitoris immediately. Try starting with the area around it, which may be really sensitive for some women. It will build up tension more, even though it doesn’t appear to make the same response.

4) Thinking that all women are the same

All women are different, so what works for one woman may be very uncomfortable for another. Women vary in when and where they like to be stimulated, with how much pressure etc. So experiment and pay attention to her reactions.

Simple technique you can try straight away – ABC Method or licking the alphabet

After you got those guidelines above covered let me share with you a very simple technique. It’s pretty common so you may have heard it, but it can work really well. Sam Kinison, former stand-up comic, is the originator of this infamous technique which he revealed in his comic routine.
His suggestion is to lick the alphabet, one letter at a time, on and around the clitoris and vulva. What this simple formula does is it keeps a regular, rhythmic motions going. You still change it in some gradual pattern which is similar but still not so monotone to make her insensitive to it.

The alphabet is very likely the longest chain of shapes you can be sure you’ll repeat easily and in the same pace, without forgetting where you were.
With this simple technique may not give her orgasm but it’s great to start with because it’s a really good way to learn what she likes.
Pay attention to which strokes she reacts positively and make mental notes to use those moves later again.
This Alphabet technique is really simple and it usually works well (presuming you don’t make the above mentioned mistakes).

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