Tips for girls – by Susan
If there’s one skill that every man would like a woman to have it is definitely the ability to give a great blowjob. However some women make the mistake of thinking that all the work should be done by the man in the relationship.
BUT… if you want to have a great sex life, you have to remember that “you have to give to get”. That being said every women should pick up the techniques in bed that will give him the greatest amount of sexual pleasure.
So what exactly does it take to give a man great head?
Below is how you should go about giving a man great head which will lead him to have an orgasm that he is not bound to forget anytime soon 😉
Step 1: Find A Comfortable Position
Just like vaginal sex, there are plenty of positions that you can try while giving a BJ to your guy. You can have him lay down in bed, have him standing up or have him sink into a comfortable couch or armchair.
I personally enjoy him on the couch or chair. I like it because I can suck him for a bit then lay my head on his thigh and play with him. Sometimes I even take the chance to stimulate him anally (more on that in a later post). Although it only takes a few minutes of direct stimulation for a man to have an orgasm especially when you’re using your mouth, from this position you can keep him going for a loooong time.
Step 2: Start Slowly Licking Him
First and most importantly when you start giving him head be sure to use your tongue in one long, slow licking motion from the base of his penis all the way up. Do this on as many sides of penis as you can, then when you feel that he’s all worked up, that is the time that you can slowly take the shat into your mouth.
Step 3: Use Your Tongue, Mouth & Fingers
While taking his penis into your mouth, be sure that you don’t ignore the rest of his package. Use your tongue, mouth and fingers to stimulate the rest of his shaft. Use your fingers to cover the part of the shaft which you cannot take into your mouth. Don’t forget to GENTLY massage his testicles or LIGHTLY pull on the scrotum (just keep in mind how you like your nipples/clit played with).
Show him that you’re really into it by staring into his eyes and watch his reaction. It’s simple thing like this that lead to a mind-blowing orgasm that he’s not bound to forget anytime soon!
So there you go. Three easy steps to pleasure your man orally. If you want to learn more check out this amazing blowjob guide.
The worst way to receive a blowjob is for a man to actually feel your teeth on him – so keep your lips covered. The best way to prevent accidentally grazing his penis with your teeth is by relaxing your jaw. If you need to, cover your teeth with your lips.