Have Him Read This Before He Heads South

Introduction: This is a post by our female follower. Enjoy it!

As women let’s face facts, as much as your man claims to be an expert when going down on you he can ALWAYS do a little bit better. Unless I grab the sheets and arch my back I’m not completely happy.
So I put together a short list that you can “gently” share with him. To avoid a bruised ego say that he makes you “feel good” but you could “FEEL GOOD” if he just tweeked a few things.
So here we go guys:

Ask her what she wants! We are all different and like it different ways. What worked for your last lady might not be on the list for your next. I like a tongue soft and light on my clit until I tell you to suck it! WE will let you know what feels good. Just ask!

We have something like 5 times the nerve endings as men do “down there.” So more pressure, more motion, etc., really isn’t more. It’s just distracting and/or painful. As a woman, the best thing I can say is, don’t just start going at it! It is uncomfortable and it helps if you set the mood first. Teasing and blowing really feels good. Let your mouth do the work, not your hands! Just like BJs aren’t that great if we take your pants off and deep throat you off the bat, we like to be teased with the idea for a while, and get really, really aroused before you get started. It makes the orgasm THAT much harder.

I like a guy to ask me how I like my pussy licked so I can help him find that awesome combination that makes me squirt without worrying about hurting his feelings or making him think I don’t enjoy his moves. It takes a really great and confident lover to ask for feedback during hot sex. It makes me crazy!
Nothing is more erotic than being held open with gentle loving hands. It gives direct access to the clit and works so well. I melt every time! When his elbows are planted at shoulder width (my lover’s shoulders are quite wide) and he has me open and exposed, working away, there is no way I am able to get away.

Having had my pussy licked, sucked, eaten, and savored by men (and occasionally women) I can tell you that the best way to find out what she likes is to get her to play with herself. Follow her lead, and it will change each time. Sometimes my pussy wants it hard, really hard, and sometimes only the slightest feather touch will make me explode.

Keep a steady rhythm going, and keep your tongue relaxed! Pointed tongues are too harsh on the clit, and actually desensitize. Another thing to keep in mind is that just because she’s moaning louder doesn’t mean she suddenly wants you to start going faster, make crazy figure eights, or gnaw on it. It means she likes EXACTLY what you’ve been doing. When a guy is doing something
I really like, I’ll usually say, “Don’t stop,” which means, “Don’t stop exactly what you’re doing right now.”

I find that just the tip of my partner’s finger inserted in my pussy after he’s been eating me out for little while – barely moving, just sort of tickling the entrance – makes me go nuts. Pussy eating is a delicate matter, so don’t thrust your finger too vigorously. You’re just trying to gently tickle her into coming!

Stop and make her need it. Finger her now, slowly at first, and kiss her thighs. Start again by flicking her clit with your tongue, light pressure, then experiment with other pressure and movement. Everything on the clit feels good, but some moves feel GREAT! Play around with tongue pressure and fingering and ass fingering or ass tickling/licking (if she wants it).
There is nothing worse than a guy who finds a licking technique that the woman likes and then changes his speed or tongue position mid-lick because he is afraid she is getting bored. Really, your girl is just going to get frustrated and it is going to be harder to make her cum. If she acts as if she likes what you are doing – STICK WITH IT!!! Don’t change your technique because your guy friends tell you that it is best to try a bunch of tricks all in the same session. Just pay attention to her!

Enjoy it! We always get more pleasure if we feel that the guy is REALLY having fun. If I see that my boyfriend is doing it under pressure, I won’t enjoy it either.
So take this tips, use them and develop your own techniques to make your lady enjoy herself..

ps. Want more? Check out this G-spot simulation video.