The vast majority of women find it easier to reach an orgasm through clitoris stimulation. So the best sex positions are those which stimulate the clitoris. Of course, there are also some specific positions which are designed for women who prefer vaginal orgasm. Let’s see the top 7 sex positions that will rock any woman’s world!
#1: The Missionary
How to do it: The woman lies on her back and the man gets on top of her between her legs. He supports his weight on his elbows and he thrusts in and out…
Why it works: This is an old school position which is considered as one of the most popular and most effective sex position ever! Women love this position because they feel closer to their partners and it’s easier to feel the intimacy they want in order to enjoy sex! Apart from the emotional part, this position really works because it stimulates the clitoris because of the friction it creates in the area. In this position, the man has the control of the motion which means that he can increase or decrease the pace to last longer and make this position work even better!
#2: Coital Alignment Technique
How to do it: This position is similar to the traditional missionary (man on top), but the difference is that the bodies come closer. The man actually hugs the woman and the woman wraps her legs around his thighs. The man must make sure that his pubic bone makes contact with her clitoris. In this position, the movement shouldn’t be just in and out, but the man should grind his pubic bone on her clitoris creating friction!
Why it works: Like I mentioned before, the most important thing in this position is to create friction! The man should rub the base of his penis on the clitoris to stimulate the area and help the girl climax. This position gives the man the opportunity to stimulate other areas of his girlfriend’s body by kissing her neck or whisper something sensual in her ear (the heads are on the same level in this specific position)!
#3: Woman on Top
How to do it: I believe it’s obvious how to perform this position. The man lies down on his back and the woman gets on top facing him. She puts her legs on the man’s sides and she’s ready to go! There are two different moves a woman can make once she’s on top… Firstly, she can move up and down and secondly, she can thrust back and forth grinding her pelvis on her partner’s pubic area. The second movement is way more effective in stimulating the clitoris!
Why it works: The number one reason why this position works is because the woman can control the tempo and the penetration, so she feels more confident and she can enjoy herself! Anatomically, this position is great because it directly stimulates the clitoris especially if the woman chooses to rub her clitoris area on the man’s penis and pubic bone!
#4: Sideways Straddle
How to do it: This position is also called the seated scissors. Despite the fact that it’s quite difficult to perform, it can be very effective. Once you get it right, it will always be in your sex plans! In this position, the man lies down on his back with his feet flat on the ground (or bed) and the woman gets on top (turning her back on him) with one of her legs between his legs and the other leg on his side. So now she’s sitting on him (on his penis) with one of his legs between her legs. Then she grabs his upper thigh, which is bent, and she goes up and down rubbing her clitoris on his thigh.
Why it works: This position is really sensual and sexy! The man has a great view and the woman takes control of the situation pleasuring herself and her partner. The fact that the woman rubs herself on her partner’s thigh instead of just moving up and down creates the needed friction which will stimulate the clitoris and produce a powerful orgasm!
#5: Reverse Cowgirl
How to do it: This position is like the “woman on top”, only this time the girl turns her back on her partner instead of facing him! So the man lies on his back (or he sits on a chair) and the woman sits on him with her legs on his sides facing his feet.
Why it works: This movement also stimulates the clitoris. It’s very popular among women because it can produce some powerful orgasms and it also enables women to control the pace! Men like this position as well since they have a great view from behind. On the other hand, this position can be pretty dangerous for the penis, so the pace must be controlled and the movements should be very careful.
#6: Legs Up
How to do it: The woman lies on her back and the man gets on top, but the woman’s ankles go over the man’s shoulders. Flexibility is required in this position, but women never have a problem with that!
Why it works: This position allows men to achieve deep penetration. Women who are able to reach a vaginal orgasm love this position since the stimulation of the vagina is the purpose of this position! The G-spot is also stimulated very easily during this movement. Of course, the man is in charge of the pace here which means that he can also control the duration of sex.
#7: Doggie Style
How to do it: The woman gets on her hands and knees and the man kneels behind her. He can hold her hips while he thrusts back and forth. She can hold still or push her butt back against him.
Why it works: This is probably the position which keeps the perfect balance between two sexes; both men and women love this position. Men love the view of their partner from behind and the sense of rough sex, while women love this position because they can enjoy a powerful vaginal orgasm! A man can easily target the G-spot in this position; a vaginal orgasm is almost certain, while the man or the woman can stimulate the clitoris by hand at the same time!
To sum up, there are certain sex positions which stimulate the clitoris, while others stimulate the vagina. Most women prefer clitoral orgasm, so the friction is the key here. If a woman prefers a vaginal orgasm, the depth of the penetration is the most important thing!
Guest post by Lazaros, Greece